The problem with saying Thank You
Some people learn to simply mouth expressions of gratitude, and, in the process, fail to reap the full harvest. Perhaps that was always...
Why is choosing love such a hard sell?
“Why is choosing to love everyone such a hard sell? Because: 1) We ask people to "earn" our love. 2) We think if we love everyone, even...
Six Tips for Happy Negotiations
1) Prioritize happiness and love 2) Eliminate unhappy forms of motivation (complaining, whining, anger, ultimatums, guilt-tripping) 3)...
Is judgment a love eraser?
“Let's really tell it like it is. Here's the skivvy…At the moment I choose not to "like" you, I AM NOT LOVING YOU! ‘Wait,’ you might...
Living By Intention
When Samahria and I started the Option Institute® about 30 years ago, I recall writing down a list of my primary intentions. Among them...
I don't teach forgiveness. Why?
FORGIVENESS LEAVES THE JUDGMENT INTACT! We would not have to forgive people if we hadn’t judged them in the first place. Reading these...